My cock has a 40 degree bend. Is it normal?
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I have a serious problem regarding my penis. I masturbate daily by rubbing against bed from the age of 15 and now I’m 20. During the act I never tried to retract my foreskin. But now if I try then it doesn’t slips back even though it’s not tight. Is there certain method to pull it back or I have to opt for circumcision or it’s ok to perform sex without pulling it back.Second one is that my penis bends towards right more than 40 degree, is this cause of concern to me after marriage – Or will it enter the vagina safely? Is there any method for both these problems as I don’t want to discuss to any outside person (even doctor).
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there are many who masturbate by rubbing their cock against the bed or sofa and then ejaculate. Though this is not the normal way of masturbation, it works just as fine. Maybe you need to start masturbating by holding your cock in your hand and moving it up and down. This will help in stimulating the cock and also help in getting the foreskin to retract. Please be very gentle initially while retracting the foreskin since it might hurt. If this also doesn’t help, then please visit a doctor who will guide you on whether you require circumcision or not. The foreskin has to be retracted while having sex.
Most cocks have a slight bend. Incase it’s a real huge bend, there is no cause for concern. Please visit the doctor for both these issues since they might be a problem later for you after marriage. There is no social stigma or shame in visiting a doctor since sex related problems are a concern to anyone. So don’t be shy or feel ashamed. It’s perfectly normal to be concerned about your body and you have the right to get things fixed if there is a problem...
I have a serious problem regarding my penis. I masturbate daily by rubbing against bed from the age of 15 and now I’m 20. During the act I never tried to retract my foreskin. But now if I try then it doesn’t slips back even though it’s not tight. Is there certain method to pull it back or I have to opt for circumcision or it’s ok to perform sex without pulling it back.Second one is that my penis bends towards right more than 40 degree, is this cause of concern to me after marriage – Or will it enter the vagina safely? Is there any method for both these problems as I don’t want to discuss to any outside person (even doctor).
A :
there are many who masturbate by rubbing their cock against the bed or sofa and then ejaculate. Though this is not the normal way of masturbation, it works just as fine. Maybe you need to start masturbating by holding your cock in your hand and moving it up and down. This will help in stimulating the cock and also help in getting the foreskin to retract. Please be very gentle initially while retracting the foreskin since it might hurt. If this also doesn’t help, then please visit a doctor who will guide you on whether you require circumcision or not. The foreskin has to be retracted while having sex.
Most cocks have a slight bend. Incase it’s a real huge bend, there is no cause for concern. Please visit the doctor for both these issues since they might be a problem later for you after marriage. There is no social stigma or shame in visiting a doctor since sex related problems are a concern to anyone. So don’t be shy or feel ashamed. It’s perfectly normal to be concerned about your body and you have the right to get things fixed if there is a problem...
My wife doesn’t get satisfied when I fuck her. What should I do?
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I am new married, I am 25 yrs and my wife is also 25 yrs. I have one problem during the sex time. I know very well girl sex spot or point. Then I apply on my wife kiss, boobs press and licking pussy then my wife is getting very hot. After the I insert my penis in her pussy but my wife wants more – its means my wife is not happy but all medical report say that I am ok. Tell me what I do for good sex.
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It’s wonderful to know that you have kept yourself informed with satisfying a woman through foreplay. From what you have described, it seems that your wife really enjoys the foreplay but not the actual act of sex. A man requires a penis of minimum 2 inches to satisfy a woman; 4 to 6 inches is considered normal size for the Indian male.
What you can do is really give your wife a stimulating orgasm with foreplay. Your methods of kissing, licking her pussy and boobs pressing seem perfect to get the job done. Maybe you can give her multiple orgasms by fingering and licking her wet pussy. You need to communicate to her that you too need to satisfy yourself through sexual intercourse. So after you have sucked and made her cum, then you can enter her pussy and fuck her till you cum. I’m sure that she will be quite satisfied till then and get happy herself. Also maybe you need to increase your fucking time since it takes longer for a woman to orgasm when fucking...
I am new married, I am 25 yrs and my wife is also 25 yrs. I have one problem during the sex time. I know very well girl sex spot or point. Then I apply on my wife kiss, boobs press and licking pussy then my wife is getting very hot. After the I insert my penis in her pussy but my wife wants more – its means my wife is not happy but all medical report say that I am ok. Tell me what I do for good sex.
A :
It’s wonderful to know that you have kept yourself informed with satisfying a woman through foreplay. From what you have described, it seems that your wife really enjoys the foreplay but not the actual act of sex. A man requires a penis of minimum 2 inches to satisfy a woman; 4 to 6 inches is considered normal size for the Indian male.
What you can do is really give your wife a stimulating orgasm with foreplay. Your methods of kissing, licking her pussy and boobs pressing seem perfect to get the job done. Maybe you can give her multiple orgasms by fingering and licking her wet pussy. You need to communicate to her that you too need to satisfy yourself through sexual intercourse. So after you have sucked and made her cum, then you can enter her pussy and fuck her till you cum. I’m sure that she will be quite satisfied till then and get happy herself. Also maybe you need to increase your fucking time since it takes longer for a woman to orgasm when fucking...
My girlfriend doesn’t drink my cum. What can I do to change that?
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I am a 24year old guy n in love with a 24year old gal since the last 3 year. We are into just simple foreplays till now. She just allows me to play with her boobs and touching her vagina.Thats all.1) She neither allows me licking nor putting into her vagina. Sometimes I tried to get into her vagina as soon as it touches she starts shouting. She is afraid of the pain..!2) She does BJ with lot of un-interest n as soon as d cum comes out she runs toward sink n vomits it all n for d next half an hour keep saying so yukky..So bad. Make faces n etc.3) And I usually play with her boobs but around 10days before her periods some kind of pain starts in her nipples. It’s so painful that even a slight touch jerks her. Why is that since she complains about it only after I started playing with them?
Please help me I just wan to feel the touch of heaven but she never allows me and says we’ll do after marriage. What to do..?? Please help.
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Your girlfriend is a little scared about the pain when having intercourse for the first time. Since she is a virgin, her pussy must be very tight and hence she might be getting hurt whenever you try to insert your hard cock into her pussy. You’ll both could try the 69 Position where you can lick her pussy while she blows you. I’m sure she will love your tongue on her clit and pussy lips.Not many girls like to suck on cock. Make sure that you wash your cock properly before getting a blowjob. Also you don’t have to always cum into her mouth… you could always withdraw the cock out when you are about to cum and spray it all on her face or body. This way she too won’t feel like vomiting and you can enjoy the blowjob.The nipples of girls usually get very sensitive during the periods and hence it must be hurting your girlfriend. Be very gentle when you suck on those nipples… don’t use your teeth – rather just caress them with your lips and tongue.
Also, if your girlfriend wants to have sex only after marriage, I think that you have to respect that decision. So till then, enjoy yourselves with all forms of foreplay like BJ, handjobs, pussy licking etc and have a blast. Then sex will be amazing once you’ll do get married ... !
I am a 24year old guy n in love with a 24year old gal since the last 3 year. We are into just simple foreplays till now. She just allows me to play with her boobs and touching her vagina.Thats all.1) She neither allows me licking nor putting into her vagina. Sometimes I tried to get into her vagina as soon as it touches she starts shouting. She is afraid of the pain..!2) She does BJ with lot of un-interest n as soon as d cum comes out she runs toward sink n vomits it all n for d next half an hour keep saying so yukky..So bad. Make faces n etc.3) And I usually play with her boobs but around 10days before her periods some kind of pain starts in her nipples. It’s so painful that even a slight touch jerks her. Why is that since she complains about it only after I started playing with them?
Please help me I just wan to feel the touch of heaven but she never allows me and says we’ll do after marriage. What to do..?? Please help.
A :
Your girlfriend is a little scared about the pain when having intercourse for the first time. Since she is a virgin, her pussy must be very tight and hence she might be getting hurt whenever you try to insert your hard cock into her pussy. You’ll both could try the 69 Position where you can lick her pussy while she blows you. I’m sure she will love your tongue on her clit and pussy lips.Not many girls like to suck on cock. Make sure that you wash your cock properly before getting a blowjob. Also you don’t have to always cum into her mouth… you could always withdraw the cock out when you are about to cum and spray it all on her face or body. This way she too won’t feel like vomiting and you can enjoy the blowjob.The nipples of girls usually get very sensitive during the periods and hence it must be hurting your girlfriend. Be very gentle when you suck on those nipples… don’t use your teeth – rather just caress them with your lips and tongue.
Also, if your girlfriend wants to have sex only after marriage, I think that you have to respect that decision. So till then, enjoy yourselves with all forms of foreplay like BJ, handjobs, pussy licking etc and have a blast. Then sex will be amazing once you’ll do get married ... !
What can I do if my wife isn’t interested in sex at all?
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I am 33 Years ,married with 2 kids. I am not too happy with my wife as she has very low sex appetite and I have a greater one. She asks me to have sex only once a month. For her, the only objective to have sex is to have kids. I am a little overweight and she takes that as a reason. Also she doesn’t believe in the adventures I want to have like oral, 69, doggy or anal. I love to have the newer methods and want to have it at least twice or thrice a week. As a result, I feel horny all the time, masturbate twice a day and even went out to have paid sex sometimes. Still I bear a lot of dissatisfaction in me and as a result, I feel aroused when I see a sexy female close to me. I guess I am giving out wrong body language signals and eventually lose out respect in my colleague’s eyes. Still at the back of my mind, it plays all the time and my urge to have it more gets hiked when I read stories, watch bf’s, etc. Please guide me what to do.
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firstly, lose all that extra weight. Why are you even giving your wife a reason not to have sex? You are only 33 years old. There is a whole lot of time for you to enjoy so don’t let weight become an issue for you.
You also need to understand that women are not as much sexually aroused as men are all the time. With the family, children, work and house duties – sometimes sex is the last thing on their mind. Men on the other hand use sex as a stress buster and to get some relief. So it’s quite understandable that your wife doesn’t want to have sex regularly. What you need to do is to talk to her about all this issues. You’ll are still a young couple and I’m sure that you will both enjoy the sex. Get her along when you are surfing the FSI Forum – let her see how couples are enjoying here. Once you have communicated your issues with her, I’m sure that she will understand. Masturbation is ok but try to refrain from visiting commercial sex workers.Also occupy your mind with other things than sex so that you do not send out any wrong signals to people. I hope you manage to convince your wife… happy fucking!!!
I am 33 Years ,married with 2 kids. I am not too happy with my wife as she has very low sex appetite and I have a greater one. She asks me to have sex only once a month. For her, the only objective to have sex is to have kids. I am a little overweight and she takes that as a reason. Also she doesn’t believe in the adventures I want to have like oral, 69, doggy or anal. I love to have the newer methods and want to have it at least twice or thrice a week. As a result, I feel horny all the time, masturbate twice a day and even went out to have paid sex sometimes. Still I bear a lot of dissatisfaction in me and as a result, I feel aroused when I see a sexy female close to me. I guess I am giving out wrong body language signals and eventually lose out respect in my colleague’s eyes. Still at the back of my mind, it plays all the time and my urge to have it more gets hiked when I read stories, watch bf’s, etc. Please guide me what to do.
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firstly, lose all that extra weight. Why are you even giving your wife a reason not to have sex? You are only 33 years old. There is a whole lot of time for you to enjoy so don’t let weight become an issue for you.
You also need to understand that women are not as much sexually aroused as men are all the time. With the family, children, work and house duties – sometimes sex is the last thing on their mind. Men on the other hand use sex as a stress buster and to get some relief. So it’s quite understandable that your wife doesn’t want to have sex regularly. What you need to do is to talk to her about all this issues. You’ll are still a young couple and I’m sure that you will both enjoy the sex. Get her along when you are surfing the FSI Forum – let her see how couples are enjoying here. Once you have communicated your issues with her, I’m sure that she will understand. Masturbation is ok but try to refrain from visiting commercial sex workers.Also occupy your mind with other things than sex so that you do not send out any wrong signals to people. I hope you manage to convince your wife… happy fucking!!!
Does the vagina faces towards the ground when a girl stands?
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Hii. Me and my girlfriend are going great from last 1 year. We express our love by kissing…smooching …but both are virgin. I want to experience real taste of love only when we are well established. Although I do a lot of activities like touching. Giving love bites …etc. Today when both of us met, we both lost our control and I began to use my finger and inserted it in her vagina. She was too excited and both of us were lost in our ecstasy. We both were then smooching, she was standing against wall and both of us could feel our organs pushing inside our cloths .then I released my organ and tried to insert it in her vagina while standing. I don’t know whether it inserted or not…cause I thing when a girl is standing her vagina is facing towards earth. So I inserted into her pants and start pushing it. Suddenly due to a noise I realized we must wait for the perfect time and I pulled my organ back. After that I realized I was not using rubber… so she might be in any trouble. So I asked her to urinate and wash her vagina properly.My questions are -1. We both are around 21 and virgins. Is it really cool?2. Does the vagina faces towards earth when a girl stand?3. How can I control my urge to have intercourse with her? We are into final phase of our graduation and I want to make love after we are over with it.4.(MOST IMP) I didn’t used rubber (Condoms) and still have some insertion of my organ (I guess so)…. but I asked her to urinate….I didn’t ejaculated my cum but might be some particles of it may be stuck to my organ cause of masturbation…I know even a single cell is able to make a girl pregnant.. So is there any chance?5. And lastly can you tell me some great tips for the first intercourse.Please reply as soon as you can because I am very worried about answer of QUESTION NO.4.
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you are really cool to have such a positive attitude. Many youngsters lose their inhibitions and get caught up in the act of sex. Just remember that an unwanted pregnancy is a big problem and hence sex without a condom should be avoided at all cost!
There is no harm in being a virgin at 21. It’s really commendable that you both have kept your virginities till now. Foreplay is equally exciting and I’m sure that you will enjoy the sex better when the time is right. The vagina does face down when the girl stands since it is placed between the legs at the lower area of the body. About control, why don’t you’ll make it a point not to remove all your clothes while enjoying foreplay. Also you have to take control and always make sure that protection is around even if you’ll do decide to have sex.There doesn’t seem much possibility of a pregnancy but you can never know. You will have to wait till she gets her periods. If they are delayed for any reason, get a home pregnancy test done immediately and go to a doctor accordingly. To have great sex, you have to be yourself. Just make sure that you make an effort to satisfy your partner and in turn she will definitely satisfy you. Indulge in a lot of foreplay before the actual sex to enjoy it even more. And always try out something new – don’t get stuck in any boring routine...
Hii. Me and my girlfriend are going great from last 1 year. We express our love by kissing…smooching …but both are virgin. I want to experience real taste of love only when we are well established. Although I do a lot of activities like touching. Giving love bites …etc. Today when both of us met, we both lost our control and I began to use my finger and inserted it in her vagina. She was too excited and both of us were lost in our ecstasy. We both were then smooching, she was standing against wall and both of us could feel our organs pushing inside our cloths .then I released my organ and tried to insert it in her vagina while standing. I don’t know whether it inserted or not…cause I thing when a girl is standing her vagina is facing towards earth. So I inserted into her pants and start pushing it. Suddenly due to a noise I realized we must wait for the perfect time and I pulled my organ back. After that I realized I was not using rubber… so she might be in any trouble. So I asked her to urinate and wash her vagina properly.My questions are -1. We both are around 21 and virgins. Is it really cool?2. Does the vagina faces towards earth when a girl stand?3. How can I control my urge to have intercourse with her? We are into final phase of our graduation and I want to make love after we are over with it.4.(MOST IMP) I didn’t used rubber (Condoms) and still have some insertion of my organ (I guess so)…. but I asked her to urinate….I didn’t ejaculated my cum but might be some particles of it may be stuck to my organ cause of masturbation…I know even a single cell is able to make a girl pregnant.. So is there any chance?5. And lastly can you tell me some great tips for the first intercourse.Please reply as soon as you can because I am very worried about answer of QUESTION NO.4.
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you are really cool to have such a positive attitude. Many youngsters lose their inhibitions and get caught up in the act of sex. Just remember that an unwanted pregnancy is a big problem and hence sex without a condom should be avoided at all cost!
There is no harm in being a virgin at 21. It’s really commendable that you both have kept your virginities till now. Foreplay is equally exciting and I’m sure that you will enjoy the sex better when the time is right. The vagina does face down when the girl stands since it is placed between the legs at the lower area of the body. About control, why don’t you’ll make it a point not to remove all your clothes while enjoying foreplay. Also you have to take control and always make sure that protection is around even if you’ll do decide to have sex.There doesn’t seem much possibility of a pregnancy but you can never know. You will have to wait till she gets her periods. If they are delayed for any reason, get a home pregnancy test done immediately and go to a doctor accordingly. To have great sex, you have to be yourself. Just make sure that you make an effort to satisfy your partner and in turn she will definitely satisfy you. Indulge in a lot of foreplay before the actual sex to enjoy it even more. And always try out something new – don’t get stuck in any boring routine...
I inserted my cock into her pussy but didn’t cum. Can she get pregnant?
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Last week I and my girlfriend involved in sex for the first time as we have got this chance. I used safety measures to protect from pregnancy to my girlfriend but we felt like feeling each other with out condom. I have cleaned my organ with a cloth and inserted into her organ but did not keep it there for time and didn’t give any strokes also. I have just inserted into her and kept it for 10-15 seconds and removed. After removing also there were no traces of cum. Can I be assured that there will not be pregnancy?
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prevention is always better than cure. If you ever feel the urge to have sex without a condom, try and schedule it at a time when your girlfriend is having her periods. The safe period when a girl can’t get pregnant is abuot a week after her periods. It is better to have sex without a condom anytime before the third or fourth day after the bleeding has stopped. But this also just once – don’t risk by having such sex on the 5th or 6th day.
I always feel that you should have sex with a condom since an unwanted pregnancy is a big problem for all parties involved. Also the method you used was good. You didn’t move it around in the pussy, thus not getting any cum out. Also, you could get your girlfriend to get on the contraceptive pill which has to be taken daily… then you can indulge in sex without a condom. Please visit a sexologist before going ahead with medication etc....
Last week I and my girlfriend involved in sex for the first time as we have got this chance. I used safety measures to protect from pregnancy to my girlfriend but we felt like feeling each other with out condom. I have cleaned my organ with a cloth and inserted into her organ but did not keep it there for time and didn’t give any strokes also. I have just inserted into her and kept it for 10-15 seconds and removed. After removing also there were no traces of cum. Can I be assured that there will not be pregnancy?
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prevention is always better than cure. If you ever feel the urge to have sex without a condom, try and schedule it at a time when your girlfriend is having her periods. The safe period when a girl can’t get pregnant is abuot a week after her periods. It is better to have sex without a condom anytime before the third or fourth day after the bleeding has stopped. But this also just once – don’t risk by having such sex on the 5th or 6th day.
I always feel that you should have sex with a condom since an unwanted pregnancy is a big problem for all parties involved. Also the method you used was good. You didn’t move it around in the pussy, thus not getting any cum out. Also, you could get your girlfriend to get on the contraceptive pill which has to be taken daily… then you can indulge in sex without a condom. Please visit a sexologist before going ahead with medication etc....
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